“Every mom is different,” says Kristen Chase, publisher of Cool Mom Picks. “She may want a day with the baby or without the baby.” So, think about what the new mom in your life would appreciate most, and try to plan a gift or activity around that. If you need some inspiration, take a look at some foolproof Mother’s Day ideas below. Chase recommends putting the baby’s handprint or footprint on the card, since it is, technically, from them. Remember to include a nice message. If you’ve got writer’s block, steal inspiration from these witty cards. If you’re totally clueless, print this foolproof Mother’s Day coupon. Print it, put a bow on it, and sign the baby’s name. “Be mindful of the single moms in your life, too!” says Krause. “If their kids don’t have another parent or support person who can come up with a way to celebrate Mother’s Day, offer to help.” This could be as simple as giving your friend or relative a card from her baby and a gift card to her favorite coffee shop. You could invite the other family to spend the day with yours (just check with your partner first). Or, you could send the new mom to the movies or a wine bar while you babysit for the afternoon. Your thoughtfulness will not go unnoticed.